Ethernet to USB adapters Realtek disconnecting intermittently

There is a question very closely related, but neither of the solutions have worked for me: USB ethernet adapter (Realtek r8153) keeps disconnecting

I have tried USB_BLACKLIST="0bda:8153" in /etc/default/tlp and adding custom rules in /etc/udev/rules.d/50-cpu-custom.rules. Ive also tried 3 different brands of adapters and they all do roughly the same thing with different rates of disconnecting. Are there any adapters that use a chip other than from Realtek I could try?

This is from dmesg:

[200584.034137] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: Tx status -71
[200584.034880] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: Stop submitting intr, status -71
[200584.214566] usb 3-4: USB disconnect, device number 25
[200584.534647] usb 3-4: new SuperSpeed Gen 1 USB device number 26 using xhci_hcd
[200584.555161] usb 3-4: New USB device found, idVendor=0bda, idProduct=8153, bcdDevice=30.00
[200584.555165] usb 3-4: New USB device strings: Mfr=1, Product=2, SerialNumber=6
[200584.555166] usb 3-4: Product: USB 10/100/1000 LAN
[200584.555168] usb 3-4: Manufacturer: CMI
[200584.555169] usb 3-4: SerialNumber: 000001
[200584.690975] usb 3-4: reset SuperSpeed Gen 1 USB device number 26 using xhci_hcd
[200584.746198] r8152 3-4:1.0 eth0: v1.09.9
[200584.887574] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: renamed from eth0
[200584.999870] IPv6: ADDRCONF(NETDEV_UP): enx70886b811ca3: link is not ready
[200585.004559] IPv6: ADDRCONF(NETDEV_UP): enx70886b811ca3: link is not ready
[200587.647919] IPv6: ADDRCONF(NETDEV_CHANGE): enx70886b811ca3: link becomes ready
[200587.648272] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: carrier on
[200685.538747] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: carrier off
[200688.192511] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: carrier on

Often there are other messages in /var/log/syslog, but on this occasion the first message was Tx status -71. This is using tac so the first messages are at the bottom:

Apr 23 18:49:35 pc dhclient[20695]: receive_packet failed on enx70886b811ca3: Network is down
Apr 23 18:49:35 pc kernel: [200073.926247] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: Tx status -108
Apr 23 18:49:35 pc kernel: [200073.926242] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: Tx status -108
Apr 23 18:49:35 pc kernel: [200073.926094] usb 3-4: USB disconnect, device number 24
Apr 23 18:49:35 pc kernel: [200073.739898] r8152 3-4:1.0 enx70886b811ca3: Tx status -71
Apr 23 18:45:01 pc CRON[23435]: (root) CMD (command -v debian-sa1 > /dev/null && debian-sa1 1 1)

Any ideas appreciated, thanks