Apparently XFCE 4.16 has adopted Gnome's horrible idea of custom window decorations / client side decorations (CSD) making it look completely out of place for those of us who designed and use our own custom window decoration theme.
This is a big step backwards, towards the ugliness of Gnome, where every app looks differently and behaves differently from the rest of the system, which is something many of us have been fleeing from.
Is there a switch or a setting to disable this behaviour?
Currently only XFCE dialogs and Gnome native applications (which I try to use as little as possible) have this monstrosity. But I fear it's a plague that's spreading.
(I blame iTunes, but that's just a historical note.)