Are *.domain.com wild card SSL certificates expected to or required to only be used by 1 IP?
Such that
site1.domain.com is on ServerX
and
site2.domain.com is on ServerY
where both servers have unique ip addresses. Is this valid to share the *.domain.com certificate across these servers?
You can use a wildcard certificate with multiple subdomains across multiple IP addresses. While there is no technical limitation, often Certificate Authorities have licensing restrictions on thier usage.