I am trying to come up with the standard configuration using wpa_supplicant for both Ethernet and wireless interfaces on a Debian system. I would like to do it in a way that when you plug in the Ethernet cable, the wireless interface is disabled, and enabled again when you unplug the cable (a reasonable configuration to get the best performance). How do I do it?
I second womble's assertion that wpa_supplicant is the wrong place to do this. You want to set something up in the /etc/network/ subtree, perhaps as womble suggests by increasing the metric of the wifi route, or perhaps by some other means involving a custom script in /etc/network/if-up.d/ that would take the wifi interface down if the ethernet interface came up.
Info on making scripts for /etc/network/if-up.d/ is on the interfaces man page, under the 'IFACE OPTIONS' section.
Are you sure that wpa_supplicant is what you want to be fiddling with to do this? It's really just for authenticating WPA connections, not doing link status detection and the rest of it.
Personally, I wouldn't even bother disabling the wifi, I'd just have an up action on the wifi interface that gave it's route a higher metric, so that if the wired interface was up it would be preferred. Something like this should do the trick (assuming that your LAN is 192.168.10.0/24):
Doing the link-sense autodetection I have no idea about; I don't typically want my network interfaces doing stuff I don't know about, so I've never looked into it.
Works for me out of the box.
I think the package implementing it is network-manager-gnome (it contains the panel applet).