is there some sort of .htaccess directive. I dont have access to httpd.conf.
I have php5 in a fastcgi/cgi module.
Multiple domains.
But for some reason all the domains are pointing to the first domains php.ini (the one I installed php with in the script)
not sure if that got compiled into the build, or if theres some setting I can change someplace
thanks much!
You can do that in the handler script by setting PHPRC variable :
Then you need to set up one different handler per domain (if you want a different php.ini)
You can't using php as an apache's module.
If you want to have a per domain configuration at such a level of flexibility you should configure PHP to be run as a fast CGI.
In this case I suggest lighthttpd + PHP-CGI, this is a possible tutorial.
EDIT: @Julien Tartarin explained his way to achieve the goal in apache, but I suggest you to not be over-headed by apache's weight, if you don't need other apache's powerful modules there is no reason to use it with PHP as a FAST CGI.