EDIT Sorry forgot details, I'm running SQL Server 2008 R2 16GB of RAM
My min/max memory allocation is set to 13 GB. Running perfmon - SQL Server:Memory Manager. Target Server Memory and Total Server Memory confirms this. The ram counter in Task Manager is at 15 GB (assuming 2GB is used for other applications)
What I don't understand is why the process sqlservr.exe is only showing 82KB usage in task manager? Further to that, all of memory consumed by the processes running on my server from Task Manager doesn't add up to 15 GB either.
So what gives
What version of SQL Server are you using? Is is x64 or x86?
I'm guessing that it is an x86 machine using AWE. When AWE is in use Task Manager doesn't report the correct amount of memory in use. This is normal, use the perfmon counter to see how much memory is in use.
115982 is a very similar question
Is this a 64bit server - do you have the lock pages in memory local policy enabled?
Here is an article that explains it in depth
You can also view the counters in SQL