Just a quick question about A and MX records.
If I have a domain that I have purchased, and I want to get remote mail working eventually, to say: mail.exampledomain.com, do I just put in with my hosting provider an A record like: Record FQDN=mail.example.com Record Type=A Record Value=my ip address
Also, with MX records, at the moment I have an entry as such: Priority=10 Host=@ Goes To=mailstore1.secureserver.net
How do I set it up so that I can forward email to an exchange server that I'm trying to setup.
Thanks.
Your assumptions about A-records are correct.
MX records are quite easy to understand, it's the same as A-records expect that they have a cost field to either have backup MX'es (very common) or for load-balancing (common for heavy traffic).
Example:
(and so on. Lower cost = higher priority)
In your example you wanna change your MX record to point to your own mail server, but I highly recommend that you get a backup MX somewhere - on a totally different internet provider than your own servers.