I have this directory
drwxrwxr-x 6 awdfiles pasgroup 4096 Jan 31 17:20 awdfiles
Which I want to access via another FTP connection. The user is part of the pasgroup
I traverse to the root html directory of my desired user and create the symlink
$ cd rayhawkpas/dev
$ ln -s ../../awdfiles awdfiles
lrwxrwxrwx 1 rayhawkpas rayhawkpas 14 Feb 6 13:06 awdfiles -> ../../awdfiles
However, when I try to download the directory in dreamweaver it looks like this
It seems to not recognize that it's a directory.
I tried symlinking to a specific file to make sure my permissions were right
ln -s ../../awdfiles/themes/1/includes/header.php test.php
This worked fine. It showed up in dreamweaver and I was able to download and upload the file.
Your FTP Server is not configured to follow symlinks.
When configured this way a symlink will appear as a common file, just as you describe.
Change it's configuration. You haven't mentioned what software so I can't say how.
Edit:
vsFTPd will not allow synlinks that link outside the user's chroot. There's no way around that.
A possible workaround is to mount the target of the proposed symlink as a subdirectory of the chroot environment. This is an ugly kludge, but the only way around the issue using vsFTPD.
A possible alternatives, install and use a different FTPd, or use a different protocol such as SFTP. I'm not sure if Dreamweaver supports SFTP, if it doesn't you can get around that with a utility that mounts SFTP drives as Windows Network Drives (I use such a utility, ExpandDrive, but there are others).