I have devices on the network that send out email alerts for misc things. The other night there was a condition that caused one of the devices to send a few thousand emails to a couple of internal users. Thankfully it didn't take anything down but you can see how it has the potential to. All the devices connect to a receive connector on one of the transport servers. The devices don't often have a built-in limiter so I figure the best place to manage this is on the Exchange side.
Actual Question
How can I set a limit/throttle on the number of emails that can go through the connector?
I agree with Joe...and you simply don't have any raw performance data to go by. A few thousand 8kb emails going to internal mailboxes on the same Exchange server or a few thousand 20MB emails going to various external recipients?
The part you are probably looking for is (copy/paste from http://www.msexchange.org/articles-tutorials/exchange-server-2007/management-administration/managing-receive-connectors-part2.html for citation):