I am looking for tools for Windows that can act as a reverse-proxy in front of a server to introduce various networking issues like jitter, delays, or packet loss.
My preference is a software solution that will work on Windows. Httpd mod_proxy doesn't appear to support such a configuration, and googling for a tool in this category is proving fruitless.
I find clumsy wonderful :
http://jagt.github.io/clumsy/index.html
If you're just testing how your app will repsond to ill-behaved networks, you could do worse that fire up a linux box in front of it with Wansim - I know, you wanted something ON the windows box... but probably doing the delayage there is an unfair test, as you've already bypassed a bunch of the stuff that is under test (eg how the OS & hardware handles packet loss).
I think you're not going to find web proxies to induce this sort of nastiness - far too high level.
Apologies if "testing your app's resilience" is not what you are after... thought i'd make an assumption rather than ask and forget to reply ;)
http://4sysops.com/archives/free-tmnetsim-network-simulator-simulate-network-latency-and-packet-loss/ ?
Also, similar question: https://stackoverflow.com/questions/117754/can-you-recommend-a-windows-based-network-emulator
http://www.akmalabs.com/downloads_flowmatrix.php - site tweaks my "be wary" sense a bit, but the software looks interesting.