My developer hypothesis is packet is getting dropped at arp layer. We increased the default value of neigh.default.gc_thresh3 1024 --> 2048 and now everything looks good. But I want to understand is there is a way to figure it out arp packet loss.I try to search for systemtap/tools but didn't find anything. Any help is really appreciated.
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